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Connection Steps

by | Sep 15, 2018 | Connection

The Lightning Path is a system of human development that guides you towards and prepares you for a stronger connection. The process of preparing for connection can be complicated, and there is a fair amount of work involved, but it is fairly easy to map out the basic requirements of connection for you in seven easy to wrap your head around steps. We’ll mention and briefly examine each of these steps below. Refer to the cited resources for additional guidance and detail.

Step one: Learn. Specifically, learn an authentic spirituality. More specifically, learn concepts and ideas that help you understand, process, ground, and connect.  To find out more about what we mean by authentic spirituality, read Rocket Scientists Guide to Authentic Spirituality. To learn concepts and ideas that help you connect, study the Lightning Path Workbooks and materials, starting with Lightning Path Workbook One.

Step two: develop some basic spiritual technique.  At root, connection is a spiritual process and so it makes sense that in order to successfully navigate the process, you should develop some spiritual technique. The relevant spiritual technique includes things like developing discipline and mental focus, and learning breathing, visualization, and relaxation techniques.

Spiritual technique is something we discuss quite a bit throughout all the LP resources; however, there is a particular focus in Lightning Path Workbook One: The Basics and also The Great Awakening: Concepts and Technique for Successful Spiritual Practice. If want to learn more about, or brush up on, key spiritual technique, have a look at those resources first.

Step three: establish the aligned action. An important preparatory step on the path towards both healing and connection is the establishment of aligned action. In general, aligned action is an action that supports both healing and connection. In brief, aligned action is an action that is awakened, aligned, accountable, and so on.  A aligned action includes things like nonviolence, compassionate and empathic interactions with others, and so on. Aligned action may be contrasted with the wrong action. Wrong action is action that undermines connection. If you want to connect, strive to establish aligned action.

If this sounds a little abstract and complex, it is because it is. We discuss aspects of aligned action throughout the LP Corpus, but you’ll find it specifically addressed in the Lightning Path Workbook Three section on atonement and alignment, and also in Lighting Path Workbook Two in the context of creating boundaries and interacting with other humans.

Step four: establish aligned environment Aligned environment is an environment that supports and enhances connection. Aligned environment is safe, nurturing, and protective, like a womb is supposed to be. Such environments are necessary because your Highest Self is the ultimate “snowflake.” It is sensitive, loving, compassionate, and aware. As we learn in LP Workbook Three, it suffers in the “hell fires” of old energy toxicity and withdraws to reduce its pain and anguish. If you want to build up and preserve connection, make sure to create spaces that are nurturing and protective where you safely heal, connect, and explore. Find details in Lightning Path Workbook Two and Lightning Path Workbook Three

Step five: heal the body. The physical body and the bodily ego endure trauma and take damage because of the Toxic Socialization process we all endure. An unhealthy body/mind, a weak and damaged bodily ego struggles with the light and power of its own Highest Self.  To ensure we are capable of handling the connection to our own Highest Self, healing is required of all of us. Lightning Path Workbook Two provides a HEALING framework that can help facilitate your healing process.

Step six: establish aligned thought. One of the biggest obstacles to obtaining and maintain a strong, pure, and persistent connection is the presence of wrong thought in your bodily consciousness. Wrong thought undermines connection by fanning the flames of guilt and shame, and by inducing fear, paranoia, and self-loathing, all of which serve to disconnect you from your Highest Self. Establishing aligned thought is thus a necessary prerequisite to a pure and persistent connection.

To help establish aligned thought, the LP offers the Triumph of Spirit Archetype System (TOSAS). The TOSAS is a set of archetype cards and LP books that help you identify wrong thought and replace it with aligned thought. There are several resources required to use the system, including Lightning Path Workbook Four which provides a step by step guide through the TOSAS archetypes.

Step seven: practice connection. The first five steps on the Lightning Path are preparatory. They get your mind and emotions ready for powerful connection experiences. Once you’ve taken the preparatory steps, you can begin your connection practice. Lighting Path Workbook Five and Lightning Path Workbook Six provide you with the technique and guidance you need to make strong, pure, non-pathological connections to your Highest Self/Consciousness.


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